The Register-Mail
October 17, 2008
Victoria residents relate stories to AlWood teens
By Sherrie Taylor
WOODHULL
There were no mixed messages at the MWAH! program at AlWood Middle/High School Thursday morning.
Accompanied by talented singers and dancers, the teens from northern area communities presented powerful messages they want all teens to hear.
Their message was emphasized by two local speakers, Chris Gibbs and Chad Truelove, both of Victoria.
The 22-year-old Truelove talked about attending a party to celebrate the summer a year ago and setting out for home after drinking.
As he spoke, a picture of his mangled pickup truck was displayed.
The truck rolled and with a seat belt on, I considered I was lucky getting out of the accident alive,” Truelove said.
But I now say I was blessed. Most of the damage was on the passenger’s side, and had there been someone else with me, it would have been different.
Learn from my experience; there’s no excuse to drink and drive. If you do drink, have someone come and get you.”
Truelove emphasized his message with a personal offer: "I’ll give you my cell phone number, I’ll pick you up."
Chris Gibbs read a touching letter she wrote to her son, Alex, who died about 18 months ago.
"Sometimes an accident doesn’t end well; my son was not so lucky," she said.
The letter to her son, written after his death, asked what he was looking for in alcohol and drugs. Seemingly, he had everything: a loving family, his own vehicle, friends and work. Family and friends helped him stay clean and sober for a long time, hoping he would live a long, healthy life.
"Drugs do not add to your life, they only take away," she told the AlWood students.
"It’s often all about the C word, and I don’t mean casket," said teen speaker Chris. "It’s about choices."
The troupe shared messages about bullying, abuse, hatred and a variety of teen issues.
The students were told they have a lot of heroes in their lives, people who can save a life or help them in some way.
AlWood Middle/High School Principal Jay Bizarri introduced the AlWood heroes to be recognized at the conclusion of the program.
Middle school student Raven McFarland often takes care of brothers and sisters, but continues to contribute positively to the school, Bizarri said.
Elijah McCreery, also a middle school student, struggled academically last year, but is making a real effort to get his life back on track, taking care of programs that will help him, this makes him a hero, Bizarri said.
"Jonathan Timberlake is a hero to me," Bizarri said. "He has struggled academically, had reading difficulties, but wanted to be part of the John Deere Area Career Center program and is finding success."
"Sisters Chelsea and Nikki Meirhaeghe lost their father a year ago and one of the girls has had back surgery, but they strive to overcome obstacles and do well academically; they’re heroes, too," Bizarri said.
The AlWood heroes were honored with a song, sung to each of them personally by several of the troupe members.
Two Victoria residents, Chris Gibbs, left, and Chad Truelove, shared stories of their lives after accidents involving alcohol and or drugs with students at AlWood High School on Thursday.
Gibbs lost her son, Alex, while Truelove was fortunate not to be have been hurt seriously. A picture of Truelove’s pickup is in the photo.
AlWood Middle/High School students react with a standing ovation at the conclusion of a performance Thursday by the MWAH! Performing Arts Troupe (acronym for Messages Which Are Hopeful!).
(photos by Sherrie Taylor / The Register-Mail)